The list

So I was working on a story last night, and it got me thinking about exactly what I’m looking for in a guy.

Here’s the list so far…

• Artistic (writer/musician/artist)
• Not afraid of strong emotions
• Not afraid of strong women
• Passionate
• Dedicated
• Not afraid to dream big dreams, but grounded enough to know when they’re unrealistic
• Smart
• Funny
• Talented
• Employed
• Reads books
• Watches movies
• Tall (min 5’10″)
• Kinky (or at least open to experimentation)

There’s more, but this is a start.

And yes, I’m a demanding bitch, but whatever. I can dream. This isn’t a list of “must haves”, although some of them are definitely non-negotiable, this is a list of what I want, and some things that I need.
The thing is, I’m not even looking right now, but I figure if I can work out what I’m looking for when I do decide I’m ready, I’m halfway there.